Where to begin, I can write about the lack of work for an escort, but that seems a bit egotistical today. I can write about our incredible pilots, the mechanics, our brilliant youth that handling the intelligence, the logistics behind our pilots. Of course I’m not forgetting the guys on the ground, going house to house, the tankers protecting them, and all of those men and women doing hundreds of days of reserve duty, and of course their partners taking care of the family without them. I could actually go on and on about just so many doing so much…..

I have nothing to complain about, but I am proud of them all of them for doing so much for so long

I’ll continue this post at a later date

Israel is in the middle east where in pure meteorological terms:

Israel’s climate is Mediterranean with hot, dry summers and mild, wet winters, and arid/desert conditions in the south.

Now the road, civil engineers, building designers took that description literally and defined “mild” as wearing a light jack once in a while and “wet” means a few drizzles now and then. So when it came to road design, they figured that perhaps once in a 100 years would there be enough rain to flood the streets, rather than the once a year.

And those “mild winters,” well that meant the builders don’t have to waste time and money putting in insulation so that homes keep the warmth in when their heaters are on. And of course no need for central heating as, after all the winters are all just ‘mild.”

So we spend our time standing, sitting next to the radiators, wondering how much electricity they are soaking up. Parents with toddlers and their cute babies that are just now starting to crawl, are constantly watching them to keep them away from the hot metal of the radiators.

Some of us just sit on the couch with a warm blanket waiting for some one else in the apartment to move so we can order some hot coffee or tea from them.

Which is why in the winter I just want to stay home 🙂

They did not consider us escorts and our winter escorting requirements of getting outside

But staying home also isn’t the cozy sanctuary you might imagine. Because remember—no insulation means these buildings are basically fancy tents with plumbing. The cold seeps through the walls, the “mild” 10°C outside somehow feels like 0°C inside, and there’s no escaping it. You can feel the chill radiating from the walls themselves.

And when it does rain —it’s like Mother Nature is making up for months of drought all at once. Those roads the civil engineers designed for “a few drizzles”? They transform into rivers within minutes. Intersections become lakes. Cars stall in water up to their doors. The news shows the same footage every year: someone’s car floating down what used to be a street, a suv stuck in a flash flood, drivers standing on their roofs waiting for rescue.

The irony is that Israel has some of the world’s most advanced water conservation and desalination technology. We can make drinking water from the Mediterranean. We’ve mastered drip irrigation. But weatherproofing our roads and homes? Apparently that was a bridge too far.

But right now, in January, I’m sitting here in a sweater, thick socks, and a blanket, watching the rain pound against my single-pane windows, hearing the wind whistle through gaps I never knew existed, and wondering whether the street outside my building will be passable tomorrow afternoon so I can visit a client or if I’ll need a kayak to visit him in his warm central heated 5 star hotel.

I’m just waiting for the summer…..skirts, sandals, bikinis…..

One of the more organized clients that I have met are the airline pilots. The have their schedules, their hotel is already set up and they know enough about their own schedules to know when they will be free for me to have a visit.

and I put them in my calendar fully confident that nothing will change….(just kidding, they’re schedules are so precise and yet they are so unpredictable)

The Disruptions….

After all the planning and scheduling, then comes the surprises: weather, war, strikes, disease that cause the flights to be disrupted….

and then I get the email, always polite and regretful with the promise to meet on their next visit, unless of course there is weather, war, strikes disease once again that disrupts the flight schedules.

and so it goes, still, I like the pilots there is something special about them.

Consequently I have decided that there is no choice but for me to learn GA This is on top of everything else I’m doing in my life. However at least unlike a lot of my escorting this at least is transferable to my “public profession” where I’m also independent.

I’m starting with the basics, such as where are my clients are coming from, which pages they are visiting, how long are they staying. Given all the time I spend on my blog and especially the images, I was happy to note that I apparently have a fan club of sorts, though I did suspect this. I do get emails from people who know that we wont be meeting (as they have read through my site and posts) but never the less write me to compliment me on my website and the posts.

and yes I love the feedback, so don’t be shy.

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So What Have I Learned so far

Pages Visited

The pages that get the most visits, the home page, gallery, about me, comparison, blog and contact pages. However this does not mean that the other pages are less importance. It could be that a single page such as “spirtual/religious” with few visits is exactly what one of my visitors is looking for and then sends me an email, which then makes it worthwhile as they can turn in to a client.

What else does Google Analytics offer

Key search words is obviously important as its those words I place in the posts and pages for Googles SEO. Next are which devices are being used, mobile vs desktop and surprise :), most users use their mobile, though I would prefer they use the desktop as its easier to read with the wider real estate of the screen, not to mention the design of the website which doesn’t really show up on mobile. However its important to know so that I make sure the site is readable on mobile and that it also uploads quickly for those with short attention spans.

Since I can’t advertise (google doesn’t allow for it), I can’t use those metrics, but google analytics does provide for scroll depth, demographics, button clicks as well as your shoe size…..

I”m turning in to a nerd….

Its been two years (and we are still not done) finally the hostages that are still alive are home. The stories we have heard from those that survived Oct 7, and of those that didn’t survive have taken their toll upon us as well. And though its not as simple as they are home again, we still have those that did not survive to be returned, we still mourn our brave soldiers and civilians that also suffered, be it PTSD, are in rehabilitation or just didn’t come back…

What a Month – The Holidays

In addition to the emotional roller coster of the hostages / hamas / IDF and everyone else involved we had the holidays. This translates into family visits which have their own dynamics. This too can be exhausting.

My Escape

As airlines resume their flights to Israel, especially from the United States, I already see my inbox being “filled” with inquries. Since most of my clients are here on business thats a good sign for the economy. A quick look to the ChatGPT does explain the relationship between the escort industry and a countries economic conditions, and it then goes to explain how complex it is.

A Version of Escort Therapy

To me, it’s clear: a stable economy means more escorting, and for me, that’s about more than just money. It’s also an escape into a simpler world — a world of fantasy, smiles, and mutual pleasure. A place where I can give my body what it enjoys, make someone feel good, and let my mind take a break from life’s complexities while enjoying a genuinely good and intelligent conversation. – Kind of like therapy, except I’m both the patient and the therapist

This blog is about their reactions when I decline to meet with them.

First an explanation of why I may decline to meet with certain people. My concern is my own privacy and safety, I wrote about this in an earlier post that you can read here: Escort Risk Assessment and its Mitigation

So how do they react? It can vary and sometimes its telling that I made the right decision. The most extreme was the guy who mentioned that not only does he have high connections in the gov’t through his father, but that if we don’t meet at a certain hotel (a real sleazy one), he will tell his mossad connections to discover my identity, replace my website with his own and expose me – wow, so I’m still waiting on that exposure to happen. And of course he wrote back and gave me a second chance, which I though was very gallant of him.

And They Can be Funny

After receiving a very kind invitation to meet, along with an explanation that at the typical age of the 40s his sex life with his wife had dwindled to near zero, leading him to explore alternatives, which is how he found my site. Despite a very well written email, with just the right amount of emotion, I still had to turn him down.

His reaction, as his initial letter was well written and thoughtful and he wrote this:

I’m used to being turned down from my wife, so that’s not new, but when you turned me down, as promised in your website you gave me a real GFE!

I actually laughed out loud when I read his response.

Just bad luck…and the acceptance

Visiting Israel for a conference, as part of a group, the choosing of the hotel is not in the hands of the individual, nor is their time schedule flexible. Usually they have some free time when they arrive and sometimes when the conference is over. Sometimes they are all on the same floor, which means have a slim young pretty girl walking in to one of the rooms may be noticed (I always ask the door be open, so I’m not left outside knocking while the guy is in the shower…… but I still have to walk the length of the hallway).

If the time a client is free doesn’t work for me, I’ll try to shuffle my schedule, but sometimes it just can’t happen. And if the hotel (which is becoming more common with boutique places) isn’t in one of the better areas, especially in the early evening, I might have to pass as well. These people are always professionals as their first priority is the conference, I’m just the bonus after their work is done (or before it has started).

So when we realize its not going to happen and this would be after multiple emails starting from even before they have arrived, they are always polite and respectful. We usually end it with a “perhaps next time.” The downside for both us, is the time spent trying to work out the time to meet with many emails and last minute schedule changes.

However, as times change one has to adapt, so I’ve modified my policy. I will and have visited Airbnbs, but not for the first time.

Once we’ve met in a hotel , spent some time together and I do feel comfortable, then on your next visit an Airbnb is an option. The first visit I still don’t know who you are and I need the security that the hotel provides.

The Hotel as a Starter

True the hotel is a bit “colder” in terms of establishing a “relationship” but its also gives me a sense of security. There are people around — lobby staff, other guests — If something doesn’t feel right, it’s easier for me to leave or get help.

That First Meeting

Our first meeting is really based on nothing more than a few emails on the internet. Though I can get some information by the way the client writes, his profession, its still not really enough. For me that first meeting is also about me getting to know the client, would I like to see him again? (obviously he is also thinking the same, but I have the advantage in that respect).

And if my answer is yes, then we are good to go for the Airbnb……

The Advantages of the Airbnb

Well to begin with they can be cheaper than the hotels, but more important is the space, the openness and the feel of home. A good Airbnb, clean, modern, with a kitchen makes me feel more like your girlfriend than being an escort in a hotel room. We have room to play be it in the kitchen on the porch, couch etc. If we are having a snack, were are not eating on the bed but have a real kitchen table to eat at.

And for those who are inviting me for multiple hours we have time for full meal, really get to know each other, yes like a real girlfriend, talk and play while the sun is setting in the distance, while we sit on a large comfortable chairs on the large porch…

The Clothing Fetish, however is not always a whole outfit. It maybe just a particular piece of clothing, such as high heels, panties, stockings or a super mini skirt that covers virtually nothing.

BYOC – Bring Your Own Clothing

I don’t have a whole closet full of clothes for the various fetishes. I would have quite a problem explaining them to my mom and friends when they go through my clothes closet when discussing what I”m going to wear to a party / wedding / holiday etc.

My clients know to bring their own (BYOC). Usually they lay them out on the bed when I arrive and sometimes I get to choose 🙂

Why its a Secret…

The clothing fetish for many, it is linked to their past, be it High School or their First professional jobs. Many of them would have this very cute girl in their vicinity, perhaps that pretty girl in their class that they simply did not have the confidence to approach (Doesn’t even have to have been the cheerleader). As a professional it could have been the assistant in the office, wearing those short skirts. Those histories, those frustrations of youth, just don’t leave them. Their wives, no longer young will not want to hear about them as they obviously cannot compete, hence I become their outlet. With me they get some relief that lets them continue with their life and they get to “pretend” that this time, they did “get the girl.”

The Porn Variation

A variation of this can be found within the porn community as its called CFNM (clothed female, nake male) which is subset of the Clothing Fetish that I see.

The absence of strip shows, here in Tel Aviv leaves a gap for these men, who seek a controlled, non-committal environment to address their desires. In their their own community, back home, they may not have the option of visiting a local club, but on a business trip, that becomes an option, but not here in Israel. BUT, I do offer an alternative.

The Alternative to the lack of Strip Shows here in Israel

So I get invited—there is no sex involved, and sometimes no touching either. Like the strip show, they don’t actually “cheat” on their wives (their conscience is clear), but better than the traditional show, they also get to have an intelligent conversation with the girl, enjoy a connection, and even get a bit of flexibility in their requests.

This kind of non-sexual companionship offers emotional support, conversation, attention, and a custom experience that reduces some of their frustrations—without crossing the boundaries of traditional marriage.

The comfort part is that I don’t have to worry about “who is this person” will I feel comfortable with him, while naked, more than that, we can continue where we left off.

The Return Client-What I Offer

I’m not the therapist diving into the “why” and “how” of fixing someone. Quite the opposite—my time with my clients is a celebration of their needs. Whether it’s a secret desire they wish to explore, or just the pleasure of having someone to talk

Is it some kind of secret kinkiness? Just invite me over, open up your suitcase, and let it all out. You’ll get no criticism from me, no funny looks. Since I’ve been doing this for while, I have seen quite a few different kinks so it would take a lot to surprise me.

Why 2 hours?

I have found that 2 hours is actually a more comfortable. Even though I don’t have an alarm that goes off at 60 minutes and I’m not a “clock watcher” both of us know that we do have a time limit and that 60 minutes seems to be hanging over our heads. When my visit is for 2 hours, its far more comfortable, relaxing, natural, whatever we are doing there is no tension, no wondering if we are getting close to the end of the hour. With two hours we just seem to naturally end the visit.

Fetish Relief

Like a friend we get to pick up where we left off, even if it was half a year ago. There is also something else, something that only the return client can get, what I call the “fetish relief.” The fetish may be new, it may be as old as the marriage (the wife not being interested in such things or the man being embarassed by it), but with me, the client gets to let it out and for some, its just a relief. No longer having this thing, this fantasy in his head constantly there.

It may take several meetings, but by allowing his fetish to be explored, the constant urge may gradually diminish. It’s not about it disappearing entirely, but rather the intensity of the urge weakening. And that makes for a happy client, which in turn makes me happy